Tag - good advice

The Cutest ‘Concern’ Speech Ever

My mother’s ex-boyfriend called me a little while ago, and gave me the ‘no drugs’ speech. Him (heavy Zimbabwean accent): If anybody tries to tempt you, think of me and say no. Just say no. Me: I think it’s the cutest thing you’re giving me this speech at 44. I’ve never even been slightly...

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Young Women! Save yourselves! Say no to Devil Peen!

I have found myself in situations with women ten or fifteen years younger than me, who defended their lack of self care and penis adjacent behaviour and pandering with my age, my bitterness etc. No my dears… that’s not it. You’ve drunk the Koolaid I rejected darling… I’m...

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