Chile… I go whole decades like this. I don’t lose friends though… even when they don’t know what landmass I am on at any given moment...
Category - Diary
While #MeToo rages righteously, and #LifeInLeggings got itself sold off for awards and the dance with the devil in the pale moonlight, let us take a...
My mother’s ex-boyfriend called me a little while ago, and gave me the ‘no drugs’ speech. Him (heavy Zimbabwean accent): If anybody tries to tempt...
My favourite box (they’re all my favourite box, cause I have a thing for boxes) and my favourite tin (which counts as a box, so they’re all my...
I have found myself in situations with women ten or fifteen years younger than me, who defended their lack of self care and penis adjacent behaviour...
The fear of female power rears it’s ugly, ugly head. “Every creature of the Creative phenomenon/force/energy that we call Oludumare...
Oshun Iyabeji Say: Children of activists come to despise The Movement because the model of revolution borne from the minds of men is linear, left...
Today Facebook showed me (in my memories) this photo taken in 2002, when I was An Associate Editor at The Wire newspaper. I had attended as...
My newest plant baby! #orchids #orchidsofinstagram #plantchildren #plantbabies #birthdaypresent On a more serious note: I am praying for the...
I have written about the vanishing Y chromosome, and indeed vanishing ‘whiteness’ (on Facebook) many, many times. I don’t actually...
