I’ll be over here, channeling my Osun, (She who owns me from the neck down) and fanning myself and collecting mirrors and feathers and shells and loving on myself, without all the bother eh?
Judging women for these kinds of choices, is like judging myself because I’ve done it. The trick though is in the long run, not just getting out of it and away from parasitic men, but more specifically, learning how to see it from afar and zig when it’s looking for you to zag.
Bottom line, struggling in any way when in a relationship with anyone, and feeling alone is something all of us cope with, but in a sexual dynamic being used and ignored is not acceptable in this day and age.
I personally can do bad all alone…